Learning how to succeed in life requires unlearning some nasty habits. Today’s article shares how to be successful in life by exposing eight of these habits and explaining how you can break them. Keep reading to learn more.
In this article:
- Letting Your Doubts Control Your Success in Life
- Being Indecisive
- Being Delusional
- Being Lazy
- Being Careless
- Tolerating Stagnancy
- Getting Sick
How to Succeed in Life? Break Bad Habits Like These
1. Letting Your Doubts Control Your Success in Life
Doubtful thoughts, which often stems from a lack of self-confidence or fear of rejection, can make it seem like your mind is turning against and bullying you. Don’t worry, though, doubts are perfectly ok and normal.
Instead of letting your doubts discourage you, sabotage your efforts, and prevent you from achieving your goals, use them to your advantage. Transform your doubts into thought experiments.
Imagine you’re pitching an idea to decision-makers and they ask you about your own doubts. Visualize yourself providing solutions that will address them.
By doing this, you’ll be able to anticipate potential areas for improvement in your projects. This can put you in a position to minimize the risk of them happening later on.
2. Being Indecisive
It’s ok to ask questions just before making a hard decision. But once you’ve decided, don’t entertain them and stick to your decision.
The same applies to your personal development and journey to success. If you want to be successful, commit to your major decisions.
Here are some of the important questions you can ask before making a major decision:
- Will making this decision help enhance my personal relationships, such as those with friends or family?
- Can it help me master the skills needed to succeed in my career or passion project?
- Will it increase my personal freedom in this area of my life?
Your answer to each question can help you evaluate if the decisions you plan to make will be good ones.
3. Being Delusional
When you go on social media, you won’t have a hard time seeing many delusional people.
They can be self-published authors who promote their own books or startup entrepreneurs who talk about their ideas as if it were god’s gift to humanity.
These are people who love smoking their own crack. They refuse to acknowledge the possibility their ideas or projects can have flaws, and that they could make mistakes.
Crack makes people high. Our own ideas, like crack, can also get us high.
People who are high on their own ideas lose the ability to evaluate them objectively. They tend to be very biased that they fail to see the red flags.
4. Being Lazy
The antidote to breaking this habit is fairly simple: earn the right to be “lazy.” Make an effort — do your work first, then you can be lazy.
Work on that email proposal first, then you can watch that new Netflix series.
When you do this, you won’t just get things done. You’ll also get the benefit of guilt-free laziness later on.
Have you ever planned to do something and actually worked up to courage to start, only to end up not doing it at all?
Maybe it was going through an important sales pitch for the next day, an hour before going to bed. Just before opening your presentation, you check Facebook.
By the time you realize it, you’re sleepy, yet haven’t gone through anything in your presentation.
To break this habit and succeed in life, stop making excuses and do the things you need to do. Stop procrastinating even if everybody else does it.
6. Being Careless
Many jobs have been lost and careers destroyed because people were careless.
Remember, a very simple mistake of adding one “zero” to an amount can multiply that amount ten-fold.
To break this habit and be successful, make sure to double or even triple check the work you’ve done every time. As the saying goes, it’s better to err on the side of caution.
7. Tolerating Stagnancy
Saying “yes” to something means saying “no” to other things. To continue working on a project that isn’t progressing, you have to say “no” to others even if they have greater potential for personal and career growth.
Choosing to work on something stagnant can be one of the biggest obstacles to achieving success.
You either progress or backslide in your personal growth and career. The truth is, plateauing isn’t neutral — it’s negative.
Quit your stagnant endeavors and focus on those that can help you progress so you can reach your goals and achieve success. That’s how you break the habit of being comfortable with stagnation.
8. Getting Sick
There’s a reason for the saying “health is wealth.” If you’re always sick, you can’t be proactive, productive, and creative.
You may say “But I have no control over getting sick!” That would be true for only 10% of the time because in most cases, sickness stems from your lifestyle choices.
You can break the habit of being frequently sick by simply choosing to get enough sleep, eat healthily, and exercise regularly. It’s that simple and these are within your power to control.
We are the sum of our habits, both good and bad. If you want to learn how to succeed in life, you can’t just develop good habits –you have to break these eight sinister ones, too.
Which of these habits do you think are the biggest obstacles to your own success? Let us know in the comments section below!
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